How To Mentally Prepare for a Performance

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Don't Worry, Sing Happy!

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Don’t Worry - Sing Happy!
©2010 Beth Lawrence

If you’re like most people, you worry. Throughout the day you may be seized with ‘fear thoughts’ which cause you anxiety. I call these ‘what if’ thoughts....‘what if I lose my job?’; ‘what if my proposal isn’t accepted?’; ‘what if I’ve gained three pounds this weekend?’ and on and on. We’re all plagued with worry, most of it so habitual that it has become our way of being.

You can think of worry as ‘a negative prayer’ - in other words, instead of visualizing and expecting good things to happen, we dwell on the negative, putting energy into something that hasn’t even happened yet! This does nothing but cause stress, further draining our vitality. Most importantly, when you put your focus on something, it tends to manifest in your life!

So let’s apply this state of worry to singing. Most of my adult clients have two main issues: they worry that they ‘can’t sing high’, and they fear that their voice will crack when they do. This sets up a cycle of anxiety that taken to an extreme, literally keeps people from singing at all! They just give it up because their fear completely overrides the joy they used to have as a free, unself-conscious child.

When you are focusing on, and fearing a particular note or ‘high’ section in a song, you are not focusing on the story you’re telling. Have you ever seen a singer whose eyes go blank as they enter a tricky section of a song? They get that ‘deer in the headlights’ look as their anxiety forces them to think of ‘technique’ instead of ‘emotion’. When you’re fully connected to the emotion of your song, there’s no space in your head for worry because you can only think one thought at a time!

So how do you stop worrying and start singing? There are four steps that will take you from fear to fabulous:

Become Aware.
Pay attention to your anxiety and learn to identify it when it comes up. Monitor your focus - where are you putting your attention? On the phantom fear of something that may happen in the future, or on the real emotion you’re feeling dictated by the lyric? Start being in the moment and putting your attention where it needs to be...on the story you’re telling.

Don’t focus on individual notes that may scare you. You are singing in phrases that are telling a story so there should be no fear of ‘notes’ within a phrase. Think in complete sentences!

Take Action!
If you’re having vocal challenges, take charge of your mind and your voice! Invest in voice lessons so that you can get over those mental and physical blocks that are holding you back from joyful singing. Wouldn’t it feel wonderful to learn the skills that would help you end your cycle of anxiety once and for all? What would that be worth to you?

Start vocalizing every day so that you strengthen your voice and reinforce the new vocal skills you’ve just learned. Not only will you speed your vocal growth, but daily vocalizing will energize your mind and body as well!

Visualize!
When a worry thought comes up, take control of your own mind and turn your fear into an opportunity to visualize a positive outcome. Rather than seeing yourself go for a high note and crack, see, feel and hear yourself hitting a clear, powerful, gorgeous note that just flows to the end of the phrase with tremendous emotion. See your audience moved by your heart-felt singing. Imagine your song-story unfolding with you totally focused on the emotion of the story, not your technique.

4. Surrender It!
Once you become aware of your habitual worry habits; and having taken action steps to remedy whatever is causing you to worry, then it’s time for the fourth step which is simply to let go of the perceived problem, and turn it over to a higher power, whatever that may mean to you. That may be ‘God’; the Universal ‘Is’; a Guardian Angel; Nature; ‘Source’ just something outside of yourself that you can conceptualize as a greater power than yourself. You are being willing enough to surrender your problem so that you don’t bear the entire burden yourself. You are allowing the power of the universe to help you. In doing this you will have a sense of empowerment and well-being!

If you don’t believe in a power outside of yourself, then simply surrender your perceived problem. Give it up, let it go. You’ve taken action, now there’s nothing more for you to do, is there? Now you’re free.

Think of singing as surrendering to the emotion of the story you’re telling. You must BE the character who is singing the song. When you are totally immersed in your story you transcend space and time....you are connected to Source! This is the magical alchemy of song.....a truly inspired performance comes through you from somewhere else, your voice is just a channel for this beautiful energy to flow through, out to the listener’s heart.

Happy Singing!
So now that you have the four steps for ending the cycle of worry, what action are you going to take? If you want to sing, if you want to play guitar, if you want to learn to fly a plane, what steps do you need to take to make that happen? Before you answer that question, have you already created worry thoughts that tell you why you can’t do what you want in life? Go through your four steps and create what you want in your life, not what you don’t want. I really believe it is all up to you....your thoughts create your life. Rather than continuing to live in fear, wouldn’t you rather take charge and be free of your anxieties? Then all I have to say in conclusion is:

‘Don’t worry....sing happy!”

© 2010 Beth Lawrence.  Please feel free to pass on this message to others, leaving our copyright, logo and web address intact. Thank you.



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Set Personal Policies!

What I used to call 'personal boundaries' I now refer to as 'policies'. Do you have policies in place for your business, as well as your relationships, family, friends AND yourself? Policies help you keep on track. They help you say 'no' without feeling guilty. Create policies to remind yourself that some things are 'non negotiable'. Personal policies allow others to be responsible for their own happiness!

Stage Skills - Stand Still!

Never underestimate the power of STANDING STILL! When you're singing or presenting, don't feel pressured to move; constant movement is distracting. Only move when you're impelled to emotionally, or if you want to utilize a different area of the stage. Move naturally, then stop! Standing still is just as important as motivated movement!

Singers -Don't Think Too Much!

It's important not to think too much when you're singing! Really - if you're thinking about technique; thinking about the audience response; thinking about anything but the story you're telling then you will never be emotionally connected to your song, OR your audience. Get out of your head and start FEELING your music. It doesn't matter if you're 'perfect' -just share an emotionally memorable performance and your audience will love it.

Get More Vocal Power - Open the Throat!

Singers & Speakers - if you want more vocal power without any effort, here's a Pro Singing Tip that will help you do that.

I'm Proud To Be A Mentor!

It's so fantastically gratifying to see your current and former students succeed! I'm so proud of former student Christina Lowe, Miss Utah 2010. On to Miss America!

Effortless Vocals in 3 Steps!

Want an effortless singing or speaking voice?  Do my three step process:
1. Breathe 2. Relax 3. open and release the voice without trying to manipulate or control it.  Try it, you'll find it easier to sing/speak, and you'll increase your range, too, as relaxing equals 'no tension', and tension constricts the vocal mechanism!

Clarify Your Message!

If you're having a challenge getting clients or growing your business, think about how you can CLARIFY your message so that what you offer is clearly understandable, and the benefits to the client are obvious!

Profession Speakers - what's your first impression?

If you speak for a living, and that could be anyone, from a Corporate Trainer, to a Minister, to a Teacher - then one of your most important assets is your actual physical presence.  And what says 'confidence' more than GOOD POSTURE?!

Here's a great tip for making a first impression that will grab your audience's attention.

Rose Breasted Grosbeak in Utah!

Yesterday saw the most beautiful birds near my pond....found them to be 'Rose Breasted Grosbeak', which are not common to Utah!  This is a photo of the male, the female is creamy, yellow with beautiful stripes on the head.

A Singer's Posture Indicates Confidence!

Every time you take the stage, whether it be in front of a classroom, or Carnegie Hall, you have an opportunity to present yourself with confidence and charisma. An easy way to do this without ever opening your mouth is to simply develop 'A Singer's Posture'!

Good posture indicates confidence, so immediately your audience will view you in a positive way. The first step in professional presentation is to take the stage with body language that says "I am a Diva!" or "I am a Divo!"

This video will give you some simple tips on developing 'A Singer's Posture'!

Stowaway

If you like B movies and 50's Sci-Fi, you'll like this song featuring myself, Norman Thalheimer and Nyle Steiner on EVI!

Singing Tips for Songwriters

It's really compelling when a songwriter sings their own music, as they are usually the best 'storytellers'. Unfortunately, a lot of songwriters are either too shy to sing, or don't think they're good enough. I say 'it's better to be a great storyteller than to be a perfect singer!'  I've posted some 'Viva La Voice Singing Tips' on my YouTube channel: http://youtube.com/vivalavoice - please check them out!

Singing During the Birthing Process

Singing is a fantastic thing to do during pregnancy and the birthing process. It releases endorphins, to reduce pain; it oxygenates the blood; stimulates the system; calms mother and baby; focuses the mind away from pain - and lovingly on the baby; and the belly breathing can ease and speed the birth process! Singing should be taught as an integral part of every birth, without fear of negative judgement. A mother's voice is perfection to the child she is carrying, even if SHE doesn't think she has a good voice. Totally therapeutic for mother AND child!

Singers & Speakers - Be Clearly Understood!

So many times singers and speakers forget a crucial element that will mean the difference in either a spectacular connection with their audience, or one that leaves their listeners unmoved.  That element is simply being heard clearly through a relaxed, dropped jaw combined with open pronunciation!

I tell my clients that they must always present their material as though their audience has never previously heard what they are singing or speaking about.   9 times out of 10, this is truly the case!  Over the years  singers and speakers tend to develop bad vocal habits which are generally overlooked by someone who can ask them to repeat what they've just said, but when in front of an audience, a performer doesn't  usually have that luxury.  You must be heard, clearly, the first time.  If you aren't understood, your listener will have no connection to what you are saying or singing!

Very simply put - you must open your mouth when you sing or speak to allow your sound to freely flow out to the audience!  You also have to open up your words so that they are easily understood by someone who may never have heard your ideas or lyrics.

So remember to err on the side of overly clear pronunciation with a dropped, relaxed jaw.  This will insure that you are heard, understood and successful in connecting with your audience!http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uxLDt6kSVkA

Music Business - Lessons In Life

Being a musician has helped me develop 'gracious acceptance' - rejection still hurts but I understand it now, and realize that it's not personal, it just IS. Being adaptable, being optimistic against all odds, being able to get back up and dust myself off are all hard lessons I've learned from the music business - but lessons necessary for life. Nothing ever stays the same; our path is ever winding and weaving, taking us to places we never dreamed we'd go. The sooner we release our hold on 'how it should be' and just let it be, the easier our path becomes. Our dreams are like a beacon on that path, and once we stop dreaming, the world becomes a very dark place. To dream is to live fully!!


This blog was inspired by a blog entry from fellow musician and co-composer, Richard Souther.

Vocalizing Clears the Mind!

Did you know that doing simple vocalizing exercises in the morning can clear that foggy brain?!  Try it -  singing helps oxygenate the blood, clearing the mind and energizing the body!

Joyful Singing Begins Again!

Off to teach the first of another 'Joyful Singing' 6 week series! It's always fun to see first night trepidation turn to excitement when folks learn they CAN sing - with just a little positive guidance!

Step Five for a Youthful Voice!

5.  Vocal Rest
Just as it's important to exercise, it's also important to rest.  We use our voices constantly, and those who use their voices in a professional setting are even more prone to overuse and tire the voice.  Be kind to your voice - don't scream, try to talk over background noise, or speak to large groups without a microphone.  When you don't have to talk, don't. Once you become mindful of your voice, you'll begin to honor silence as a great way to care for your voice.



Remember to treat your voice with respect and care and you'll have a rich, strong, healthy and youthful sounding voice for your entire life!

copyright 2010, Beth Lawrence

Step Four for a Youthful Voice!

4.  Vocal Exercise
            Your vocal cords are muscles that need to be exercised throughout your life.  Doing simple singing exercises to warm up the voice in the morning is a perfect way to start the day.  Vocal exercises strengthen the voice; get rid of phlegm, and conscious breathing oxygenates the blood!  My best advice for folks who are noticing an 'aging' of their voice is to sing everyday!  A great time to vocalize is in your car going to work.  You'll arrive with a voice that's ready to take on the challenges of the day.  Just like your body, simple vocalizing will strengthen and tone the voice, maintaining a supple and youthful tone.

copyright 2010, Beth Lawrence

Step Three for a Youthful Voice!

3.  Pitch
Speaking and singing are natural and should reflect your authentic persona.  What I mean by this is that you should be using your natural voice, not a voice that has been habitually altered through years of manipulation.  So many times clients will come to me with very soft, airy voices, or voices that sound thin and squeaky.  Many women have a hard time letting go of their 'little girl' voices and must be taught to release their naturally pitched voice.  Your natural voice is always in a comfortable range, free of pinching and straining.  Speaking with a relaxed throat and natural pitch gives the voice a warm, silky, youthful tone.

copyright 2010, Beth Lawrence

Step Two for a Youthful Voice!

2.  Conscious Breathing
The basis for proper speaking and singing is conscious breathing.  This means becoming aware of relaxing the belly, breathing low and slow, allowing the diaphragm to lower while the lungs fill with air.  Think of filling up like a balloon:  on the inhale the abdominal area 'fills' up; on the exhale, the abdominal area 'deflates' or goes slightly flat.  Most people breath very high in the chest and keep their bellies tight, which doesn't allow you to take in a full, deep breath.  You can also imagine your ribs as a bellows expanding as you inhale and going back to the normal position as you exhale.  Breathing is natural and is essential for supporting the voice so that the throat is not forcing the volume.  A youthful voice is a well-supported voice!

copyright 2010, Beth Lawrence

Step One For A Youthful Voice!

1.  Mindfulness
In general, the first step to change is awareness.  We've got to become mindful of how we're using, or abusing our voice.   As you speak, start listening to yourself!  Do you talk loudly in order to be heard over talking or background noise?  In your job, do you attempt to push your voice for maximum volume?  Do you use your voice constantly without occasional rest?  Begin now to monitor your volume, pitch and breath control and be willing to learn new ways of using your voice to maintain vocal health.

Spring Is The Time To Sing!

Spring Is The Time To Sing!

©2006 Beth Lawrence

Robins are singing, the daffodils have emerged; Spring is a time for new beginnings! When people hear me in concert, or find out that I'm a voice coach, I'm always amazed at how many of them tell me "I've always wanted to sing." They usually say it in a rather wistful way, as though it's a dream that's totally out of reach for them. I always respond, "Then why don't you?", to which invariably, they say 'oh, no! I can't sing!'

Why do we so stubbornly defend our false beliefs and limitations? If you'd love to sing; if you harbor that secret desire to belt out a tune or be the next American Idol; or just want the courage to sing 'Happy Birthday' without embarrassment, I'm here to tell you that YOU CAN! And there's no better time than right now, to begin.

Everyone can sing! You were born singing! Along the way, though, someone told you that you couldn't, and that became your belief system. Spring is the time when all things come back to life. Even dusty, forgotten dreams can be born again. So do something wonderful for yourself - take a few voice lessons! You'll see it's not as scary as you thought, and it will give you worlds of self-confidence. I offer both group and private voice mentoring and I find that most people are so anxious about singing in front of me initially that we spend lots of time working on that inner critic that demands vocal perfection. My goal is to help my clients sing from their hearts, not their heads! Singing is all about raising your voice in joy; not worrying about how good you sound, but how good you FEEL when you're sharing your music.

If you yearn to sing, then DO IT! You will feel great and you'll feel proud of yourself for taking a risk and emerging a stronger, more confident songster! I love to help people find their voices, and now is a great time to take that step of self-discovery and self-love. Sing because you've always wanted to. What better reason is there? And if you're a bit shy, then take a few lessons (study with someone whose method is based in Bel Canto) so that you gain skills that will give you confidence in your voice.

Spring is the time to start something new; something that's going to feed your soul and bring a bounce to your step! Singing has incredible physical and emotional benefits, and it's a great way to meet new friends! My unclejust started singing at age 83, and it has changed his life! He sings every Thursday night in Los Olivos, California, and just loves it! And his audience loves it, too! How fantastic that he took the initiative to take singing lessons at the local community college, then had the guts to get up and put himself on the line. And you know what??? This is now his PASSION! He lives and breathes it. I am so proud of him, and wish everyone would have the courage to open up and sing! My uncle Dick is 83 and singing every week in public; what's your excuse?!

If there’s something you want to do in life, now is the moment. The Universe wants to roll out the red carpet and let your heart's desire come out to play! Open up and let your lifesong break free. Spring is the time to sing!!

Beth’s ‘Joyful Singing!’ class starts April 12th in Salt Lake City, UT. For more information: http://vivalavoice.com

©2006 Beth Lawrence is a Veteran Diva, singer/songwriter/producer and the Owner of Viva La Voice, a conscious music company dedicated to inspiring confidence in the everyday artist, re-entry singer, and creative bon-vivant who wants to live life fully and fearlessly.

She is the author of “The Seven Principles for Vocal Mastery' , which teaches a holistic approach to ‘giving voice to your inner Hero’, honoring the connection of body, mind and spirit. For over 25 years, she has been helping people all over the Globe rediscover the joy of singing, performing, and living their Big Dream. Beth loves developing the brilliance in others!

Beth has won awards from Billboard, Parents, and L.A. Jazz Scene Magazine; the American Song Festival; and was awarded an ‘Outstanding Women In Business’ Grant from Zions Bank. To learn more: http://www.VivaLaVoice.com

On Change - "The Intertidal Years"

One thing is certain -change.  Here are some words of wisdom from Dominique Browning, former editor of House and Garden magazine:


"One adventure is over; it is time for another. I have a different kind of work to do now. I am growing into a new season. At the water’s edge, watching the tiny, teeming life of that mysterious place between high and low tides, the intertidal zone, I begin to accept the relentless flux that is the condition of these days. I am not old and not young; not bethrothed and not alone; not broken and yet not quite whole; thinking back, looking forward. But present. These are my intertidal years."

Joyful Singing Finale!

Our six week Joyful Singing series ended with a fantastic finale!  We did our 'Mock Carnegie Hall' concert to an appreciative audience of pianos (afterall class was held in a piano lab!).  And since I had urged the students to imagine a full house, it was easy for them to imagine a rousing standing ovation from their imaginary fans!

The great thing about this class, and the incredibly gratifying thing for me, as the teacher, was seeing the growth in confidence that this group experienced!  For the first few weeks of class, mine was the only voice I heard as I sang along to encourage them.  But after 6 weeks, they were singing with style and verve, and didn't need my help at all!  It was neat to see all those animated, smiling faces as I 'directed' our repertoire for our final night.  Not only were they smiling because they loved singing, they were smiling because they had overcome their fear and were able to move on with their lives, rich with a new passion that they had just re-discovered.

Most of these folks were 're-entry' singers - adults who had sung when they were young, then either put it away while they lived their lives, or stopped singing because of some public embarrassment they had experienced which caused them to shut down their voice and never sing again.  Finding the courage to even come to the first class is a testament to all of them who wanted to rekindle a relationship with singing - something they had loved, but had lost.

If singing is something that you used to do (and we all used to sing just for the fun of it when we didn't care if we were 'good' or 'bad') and would like to do again, then take a group singing class where you can not only learn some basic singing skills, but discover how fun it is to raise your voice with others.  There is a healing power in singing that is  magnified when there are many voices.  It is in our cultural heritage to sing together in joy, in sadness, in celebration of life.  To shut this voice down is to cut oneself off from our cultural community, and deny ourselves the true joy of singing.

Don't let fear keep you from joining others in song because you don't feel 'good enough'.  The only person who will be judging you is your self, and if you are in a class that can teach you new singing skills, you will improve as well as gain confidence in your singing voice.  My philosophy is the 'everyone can sing!'; but you can also learn to sing 'better' which will help you feel more secure when singing in a group, or singing solo.  So don't hesitate to get back into singing!  It will not only improve your health, it will make you feel proud of yourself for taking a risk, and confident in your ability to sing in any situation.

Joyful Singing Tonight

Prepping for 'Joyful Singing' tonight. It's my last class of the series and I'm having the students do a 'mock' Carnegie Hall Concert!

Don't Rush Your Bow !

You've worked hard to prepare for your gig.  You've studied your lyrics; understand the emotions behind the words; and have developed your voice so that you can tell your story and not be distracted by vocal challenges.

You take the stage and share your music authentically, making a sincere connection with your audience.  They feel your music and when your set is done, you get an ovation!  Here's my advice - don't rush your bow!  Enjoy your moment, you earned it!

Many times when I work with insecure or inexperienced singers they always have a problem with this.  The moment they're done with their song they practically run offstage!  Not taking a deserved bow robs your audience of the satisfaction of publicly thanking you.  It also shows your audience that you feel unworthy of their praise.

Being confident before, during and after your performance will demonstrate that you have arrived as a powerful, masterful singer who isn't afraid to take the stage with no apologies.

Do You Know What You're Singing About?

Make sure that you are prepared before you take the stage to sing!  That may sound elementary, but many times singers don't do the work that's necessary to really connect with their audience.  Specifically, I mentor my clients on the importance of breaking down the  lyrics for every song you're going to sing so that you know EXACTLY what the song is about; what the feeling is you want to impart to your audience; and what commonality you'll share with your audience when singing your songs.

What is it in your songs that people in your audience can relate to?  A lost love, a new love; triumph over a challenge?  Break down each verse, each chorus, each line so that you know exactly what the meaning is underneath the lyric.  Understanding the subtext of your lyrics is a big job and requires that a singer does their homework!  Knowing what you're singing about may seem simple, but many singers omit this crucial step.  It's not enough to be a good singer; you've got to be a great storyteller.

Remembering Michael Jackson

  

After seeing "This Is It" I was left with conflicted feelings and an overall sadness.  in the film, Michael Jackson is both brilliant, and at times, artistically incoherent.  At 50 he is still a more talented dancer than the  ensemble cast 1/2 his age.  He  was mesmerizing, yet failed to connect with his audience on an authentic level.  In life he was meek and soft spoken, while onstage he was a raging tornado of ambiguous, androgenus sex.  Beloved as a child megastar, we watched him morph into  a ghoulish character; fragile and troubled, who had legions of sycophants, but not a single trusted friend near him when he died.  He was a driven perfectionist, putting himself on a self-proclaimed 'King of Pop' pedestal from which he was doomed to fall.  Icons like Michael Jackson are destined to self-destruct because they simply can't live up to an inflated image that is never supported by a fulfilled, and filled life.

Looking at Michael Jackson's last swan song  was bittersweet, for not only did we see, after many years absence, a trendsetting artist making a remarkable comeback, but we witnessed the end of a life, the stilling of a voice that made us dance as we grew up together.  We look at 'Stars' and think that they have everything.  Michael Jackson was just another in a long line of megastars that were caught in an existence without grounded reality or inner substance.   Watching MJ, I couldn't help but mourn that darling, sparkling little boy who had such a bright future ahead of him., but who instead became a victim of the isolation and darkness that so often comes with fame.  I'm choosing to remember Michael as that uncorrupted kid, still fresh and untainted by a dream gone wrong.

Don't Trivialize Your Dreams

So many people tell me how much they would love to sing, but are too terrified to do so.  This is the very reason I offer 'Conquer Stage Fear' workshops, in hopes that they will be able to finally let their fear go.

If there's something you want to do in life, don't trivialize it; don't ignore it; find a way to have the courage to transcend your fear and live that dream.  If not you will forever regret that you didn't face the monster in the closet, that in reality is nothing more than a product of faulty logic created when you were too young to create your own truth.  If you'll open the door and face your fear, you'll be surprised to see that it's nothing more than dust and cobwebs that can no longer hurt you.

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The Singer As a Harmonious Entity!

As you take the stage to share your music, you’ll find that you must operate as a harmonious entity, with your voice reflecting your music; your body movement reflecting your emotions; and your mind clearly present in the moment, reflecting your authentic connection to your audience.

Is Your Ideal Self Taking Center Stage?

Your 'Ideal Self' is that confident, compassionate, fearless, open person that resides silently inside of you.  It is your 'Best Self'.  When you sing or speak in public, is it your 'little me' or your 'Ideal Self' that takes center stage?

Please join me for my workshop 'Conquer Stage Fear Forever!' where you'll learn to act from the 'Ideal Self'.

Where Are You Focusing?

 One of the questions I'll be asking the participants of my March 6 "Conquer Stage Fear Workshop" in Salt Lake City is: "When you take the stage, are you focusing on your perceived inadequacy, or on your authentic connection to your audience?" How about YOU?

Raise Your Voices Together!

Tonight in the Joyful Singing class I'm teaching in Salt Lake City we had tons of fun!  We started out doing our breathing exercises, vocalizing, then instead of sitting apart we all 'clumped up together to sing.

It's amazing how the energy in the room changed!  All of a sudden we were a happy, supported group, not a bunch of separate entities singing alone.  On one song I had the group split in two and sing facing each other.  It was great practice for making eye contact (a fear for many performers) and further solidified the warm, fuzzy feeling in the room!

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Exercise those Vocal Cords!

Your vocal cords are folds of muscular tissue that need to be exercised throughout your life.  Doing simple singing exercises to warm up the voice in the morning is a perfect way to start the day.  Vocal exercises strengthen the voice; get rid of phlegm, and conscious breathing oxygenates the blood!

Free Willy!

CNN headline today "Killer Whales 'neurotic' in Captivity". YA THINK?! I have always disliked zoos, aquariums and circuses, finding them tragic for the poor, majestic animals who must live in captivity. I say 'FREE WILLY'!

Stand Up To Fear!

My February Viva La Voicegram is available!

From my February's Voicegram: "It takes some work to stand up to fear and put it behind you.  But isn't an open, joyful, fearless life worth a little effort?  Believe me, it takes more effort to keep the desires of your heart subdued than it does pushing the fear out of the way so that your happiness breaks through."

What Makes a Great Performance?

What makes a great performance? Making your audience FEEL. Technical perfection isn't nearly as important as emotional authenticity.

Stage Fear and the Ideal Self

If you suffer from 'stage fear', envision yourself singing or presenting from your confident, capable 'ideal self', rather than the insecure, frightened 'little self' that fears rejection! You ARE capable and confident!!

Singers Are Storytellers First and Foremost!

First and foremost, singers are STORYTELLERS!  A character is telling his/her story through you.  As a Storyteller, you determine what your audience will feel.  You must know what the character's emotional state is, then let your emotion determine your voice quality, your face and body actions.  If you're truly immersed in your character and story, emotions, movement and expressions will be authentic and natural....you won't even be thinking about it, you will BE IT.

You're invited to my workshop on February 20, 2010 "HOW TO SELL A SONG...making the emotional connection with your audience"

Singers - Tight, Tired Throat?!

I recently got a question from a reader on my ASKBETHLAWRENCE.COM site who wrote:

 "I am contacting you just with a concern.  I am a musical theatre major, which requires me to sing on a regular basis.  I am planning on seeing an ENT within the next week or so, but I was just wondering what all could cause fatigue in my upper registers.  It is mainly when trying to sing soft that I experience this.  Is this most likely only related to technique?  Or could it be more serious than that?"

This was my response which I believe could be helpful to a lot of singers who have the same issue:

Sorry you're having challenges with your voice.  Without hearing your voice, or seeing you in person, I can only give you an answer based on my experience in what you're describing.  It could be any number of things, but it doesn't sound to me like you're having these symptoms based on anything more than poor technique, but it's good you're going to the ENT to check it out.   I had lots of vocal problems early in my career until I found a Maestro who saved my voice.  I hope you can do the same!  

If you're planning on having a career as a singer, then you owe it to yourself to sing effortlessly and easily, as your voice IS your career!

By fatigue, a singer could mean just a 'feeling' in the throat (tightness?), or actual hoarseness which would indicate damage.  Number one, are you supporting your tone?  Your breath support is critical and you need to make sure that you are breathing fully; expanding the ribs and belly; softening the belly but not 'pushing out' or having any tension in your belly, diaphragm or throat.

Two, if your throat is feeling tight and tired when you sing, your tongue may be the culprit!  If you're not supporting, then your body compensates by tensing the base of the tongue in an effort to 'hold' the tone, which is really uncomfortable.  This also causes the larynx to jam up, which again, causes a tight throat.

If your throat is tight and the larynx raised you're causing constriction which not only feels bad, but forces you to push the voice to get more sound out.

All in all, a cascade of events  is set in motion that feed upon each other creating a pinched sound, excessive force on the vocal mechanism, mental distraction, a tight, tired throat, and ultimately can result in vocal nodules.

If you haven't already done so, go to my website and read 'A Singer's Story' and some of my philosophy on voice.  

Do you have any questions about voice?  Let me know!

Salt Lake City Music Workshops

Just scheduled two workshops in Salt Lake. 'How To Sell A Song!', Feb. 20th, and 'Conquer Stage Fear Forever!' March 6th. So many of my clients are paralyzed with what I call 'Singer's Anxiety Syndrome', so I want to help them feel comfortable on stage. It's time to get rid of that limitation!

Singing for Health and Breathing!

Another great 'Singing for Health' class today. Still working on reversing years of habitual breathing patterns in my adult students.

Joyful Singing Class - laughter and tears!

First of my 'Joyful Singing!' classes last night - we had lots of laughs, and even some tears as the attendees shared their desire to sing without fear. I love empowering people to get rid of their old beliefs and sing with CONFIDENCE! It's life-changing! Class continues next Monday in Salt Lake.

Cult Status for my Musical!

"Marilyn, An American Fable" - the musical I co-wrote with Norman Thalheimer (with Kenny Ortega making his Broadway directorial debut) was named "a cult musical" by a reader/member of BroadwayWorld.com! Cult status....is that a good or a bad thing??!!!!

3rd Grade Singing Humiliation!

In my Singing For Health class yesterday I had each student sing a solo line, then had the whole class do an appropriate exercise that would address the vocal challenge the student was having.  After class a woman came up to me and said that she had had a humiliating experience at the hand's of her 3RD GRADE choir teacher, and had never sung again until yesterday.  Unbelievable how long we carry these old hurts that hold us back from enjoying life fully!

Inspiring new Songwriters!

I'm getting excited about teaching Songwriting 101 coming up next thursday in Salt Lake! I think it's so cool when you can show folks the 'secrets' of the craft, and get them inspired to write!

Songwriting 101 in SLC

Getting materials together for my 'SONGWRITING 101" class starting next week in Salt Lake.  I love teaching this class - it's always gratifying to see how inspired folks get once the mystery is taken out of the songwriting process!