Choose Optimism!

Here's some great advice from Sandra Anne Taylor's book "Quantum Success":

There's absolutely no energetic value in a pessimistic outlook. No matter what's going on around you, you can look past the problems and open yourself up to receiving the solutions. Think about how well things could go, and then take action in that direction.

This same philosophy applies to voice and singing! So many clients come to me with negative beliefs about their vocal ability. Since I believe that singing is 90 percent mental, I work on the mental and emotional level, as well as the physical, to get stellar results. If you're having a vocal challenge, stop thinking about the challenge, and start visualizing the perfect, powerful voice that you would like to have!

Andrea Michaels on Obstacles

I thought this was a great quote from Andrea Michaels, President of Extraordinary Events. It reminds me that we don't have to be perfect, just do our very best!

"Obstacles are merely challenges to overcome. No matter how much you think you know you should know that you don't know everything."

-Andrea Michaels

Musical Memory and Dementia

Studies have shown that musical memory lasts longer than any other kind, and may be the reason why people suffering from dementia are 'awakened' when hearing music that is familiar - sparking memories that would otherwise be unavailable.

A Baby Baptism Gift

I got this question from Dan on my askbethlawrence.com site, where you can ask anything you want about voice/music etc. And thought it might be of interest to those of you who are going to Baptisms or baby showers:

Thanks for your question: What are/is a typical type gift to a child being christened/baptized?
Since this question doesn’t pertain to voice, per se, I can’t give you a perfect answer. But, I might suggest that the gift of music would always be appropriate as a gift for both parent AND child. Here's my answer:

You might consider my lullabye CD “The Land of Sleepytime” which won the National Parenting Publications Gold Award. It’s a beautiful CD, with great reviews. I’ve heard from lots of parents who say they’ve played it for the child from birth and the child won’t go to sleep without it!

You can order it from my website: vivalavoice.com/products.htm

Or from CD Baby: cdbaby.com – just input my name.

A lullabye CD will help the baby sleep, and help the parents GET some sleep, so it’s always welcome.
Hope that helps!
Cheers,
Beth Lawrence

Sound Healing - Get A Cat!

I found this bit of information really interesting and wanted to pass it on!

The cat's purr may be a self-healing mechanism. Cats purr at between 25 and 50 hertz, a frequency at which vibrations have been found to have a wide range of medical benefits, from increasing bone density and helping in the healing of fractures, torn tendons and muscles to generally relieving pain.

Oprah and Inspiration

If you've ever watched Oprah's show, you'll know she has this uncanny ability to deliver a positive message without seeming sappy or trite. She's a master at presenting inspirational topics that truly do inspire, no matter how simple the message.

Today she featured two people who had 'terminal' cancer, and their message was all about FOCUS. They weren't focusing on their illness, they were focusing on their LIVES. If you truly live in the moment, and seek moments of connectedness, peace and happiness, you can't help but experience it.

Deferred gratification is for grown-ups who are too responsible to enjoy life. Savor every moment you're alive, because as much as we don't want to face it, we're all going to die. It was said today that the only regrets we really have in life are not the regrets for what we've done, but what we haven't done.

Live. Be happy.

Commuter's Voice Warm-Up

Are you a teacher, salesperson, in the hospitality industry or receptionist? Here's a tip for anyone who uses their voice at work:

While driving to work, your car is a wonderful, private vocal exercise booth! Do 10-15 minutes of vocal exercises and your voice will be warmed-up, free of phlegm and 'scratchies' and ready to go! No one will hear you and you'll arrive at work energized, clear-headed and relaxed!

Don't know how to warm up your voice? Volume One of my Joyful Singing Series has over 20 minutes of great vocal exercises on CD. Check it out here!

MTV - AFI's Davey Havok Loses Voice!

According to MTV, AFI has cancelled the last 10 shows of their current tour because singer Davey Havok has been having trouble with his voice and is unable to sing properly.

I don't care what kind of music you do, it can be opera to rock, but the truth is, you should be able to sing all night, for an entire tour, and still have a healthy voice.

This, of course, is if you're SINGING CORRECTLY!

If you're pushing and straining your voice, on and off stage, you're going to have voice problems just like Davey Havok. How awful that he's having to cancel tour dates, and too bad he isn't learning how to sing the right way so that he can keep his voice healthy in any situation.

When you abuse your voice you run the risk of inflammation of the vocal cords; vocal nodules and even rupture or tearing of the cords! Usually, like Mr. Havok, you have to undertake serious VOCAL REST, usually for a month or more, and this means no talking, too. Or the more dangerous route is to undergo surgery to remove the nodules that have formed on your cords. Julie Andrews did this and her voice is permanently damaged.

If you're a singer, do yourself a favor and learn the fundamentals of good singing. An easy way to do this is to invest in Joyful Singing...Seven Principles for Vocal Mastery. Volume One includes two CDs, warm up exercises and the Seven Principles Booklet. Start today to safeguard one of your most important assets - YOUR VOICE!

Viva La Voice Tonic Success!

My friend's meeting (see yesterday's blog) went well, and the Voice Tonic was a success! Here's what he had to say:

Thanks for the tonic recipe. I made about 4 cups of it and brought it
to the meeting. It really seemed to help. The meeting was 90 minutes
long and my partner and I were talking non stop through all of it. So
my vocal chords survived the meeting - they feel tired now - but
they're not throbbing like yesterday. My throat really likes your
tonic.

Vocal Strain 911

Today I got an emergency call from a musician friend of mine. In a matter of hours he was going in to do a big presentation on some music software that he's developed, and his voice was hoarse! Seems he'd been practicing his presentation for the last couple of days, and since he's not used to doing any public speaking, he pushed his voice too hard, causing vocal strain.

He said that not only was he hoarse, but his 'vocal cords felt like they were throbbing', which is a good indication that his cords were inflammed, and probably swollen (causing hoarseness). He was afraid of lasting damage, but if he'd only been straining his voice for a couple of days, I believe he's just experiencing a temporary inflammation, with no lasting damage. It's kind of like going to a concert or baseball game and screaming all night - the next day your voice is hoarse, but with vocal rest and proper vocal technique, this should pass in a few days.

In an emergency case like his, when he couldn't rest his voice, I told him to immediately make my VIVA LA VOICE TONIC! All the ingredients in the Tonic will soothe and relax his vocal cords so that he can get through his presentation with comfort and confidence. I suggested he take a thermos with him and drink the Tonic during his presentation to keep the cords warm, cut phlegm, and reduce swelling.

My advice to all of you singers and speakers is to learn proper vocal technique BEFORE you have a Vocal 911! Get Volume One of my Joyful Singing - Seven Principles for Vocal Mastery Series and do some vocalizing every day!

For vocal emergencies, you should also get my VIVA LA VOICE TONIC recipe. You can carry it with you in a thermos whenever you have a singing/speaking gig. It's a lifesaver for all of us who use our voices.

A Simple Task

"Go out into the world today and love the people you meet. Let your presence light new light in the hearts of people." - Mother Theresa

Tight Belly Syndrome

Here's an exerpt from my July VOICEGRAM - my monthly newsletter that's full of interesting information! Sign up and I'll send you the entire article about correct breathing for singers and speakers (which means EVERYBODY!)

Lots of people think they are supposed to tighten up the stomach area when they sing. Correct breathing is just the opposite! You must have a soft, relaxed belly in order for the diaphragm to be able to optimally descend - allowing for a full breath. If you're not supporting your vocal mechanism with your breath, your body will compensate by holding the tone with a clenched jaw, raised larynx, tight chest and other uncomfortable, unconscious habits.

- Beth Lawrence, from the July 2007 Viva La Voicegram

Weird Ringtones!

Want some weird, quirky ringtones?? Try these from Freud's Funhouse!

Feeling Old?

Still rocking with the best of them, MICK JAGGER is 64 years old today!

The Television Audience

Do watch a lot of TV? If what you're watching isn't educational or enriching, you might like the following quote. TV offers great diversion, but here's the irony in that:

"The inconsistency of the television audience is that it finds satisfaction for hours in idly watching a portrayal of the active lives of others." -Valdivar

Voice Problems?

Are you having problems with your singing or speaking voice? Want to get personal help for your vocal challenge? I'm here to help! I'll personally answer any question you have; just go to my new website and ask away!

Are You Getting IT?

Are you getting my monthly Voicegram? If not, here's a bit of what you missed. The June Voicegram, "The Psychology of Choosing' talks about, among other things, the 'story' of your life that you've created for yourself, which most probably is based on false belief systems that no longer serve you! Here's an exerpt:

Today, start being conscious of the 'story' you have chosen for your own life. You will probably find that the novel of your life has been written by the suggestion (subliminal or overt) of ghost-writer parents, teachers, and society as a whole, and that you have simply put your name on the book.

Sign up for my Voicegram and get "The Psychology of Choosing" today!

I love helping people with 'aha!' moments. Here's what one of my readers commented:

Beth,
WOW! I just got it how you are serving your clients from and at a significant depth. This last voicegram jogged me into a fresher level of looking at my stories and how they are limiting me in my role. Thank you so much! JZ

PayPlay correction

My last blog talked about downloads from PayPlay. Downloads aren't .65, sorry. Here are their download fees, still inexpensive!:


$0.77 for DRM WMA and $0.88 for MP3.

Great Download site!

For all you frazzled parents who want to get a good night's sleep, here's help!

Downloads from my award-winning CD "Land Of Sleepytime" at this Pay Play site are only $.65!!! Try 'Baby Mine' from Dumbo - your baby will be sleeping in no time!


http://payplay.fm/bethlawrence

Miss Utah Pageant Judge

I'm off to Salt Lake City to judge the Miss Utah Pageant. I'll be there all week finding a stunning Miss America contender.

These pageants are TOUGH! The girls do a series of intense interviews, preliminary pageant every night, then compete the final night for the title. All the contestants are unbelievably strong scholastically, artistically; are high acheivers; active in volunteerism; are articulate and concerned about the challenges we all face. They want to make a difference in the world while serving as a positive role model for young women.

Don't ever think that pageants are all fluff and glamour! These women work hard and deserve a great deal of respect. I can't wait to meet them all!